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This final posting on reverse mortgages is more of an editorial. One last drawback to them is the aggressive and often misleading advertising targeting seniors. The promotional copy is often designed to tap into our most primitive emotions—fear and greed—to get you to sign on.
I received one such pitch in the mail a few weeks ago. The mortgage lender was hoping that I would pass on the “newsletter” to my elder law clients. I won’t. What follows are some of its claims and my parenthetical thoughts.
Finally, the newsletter had, front and center, a man kneeling in front of his brand new Cadillac with this quote: “We aren’t eligible for an RM until next year but I figure why not? So I bought my dream car. That’s what an RM is for. Life is short!” (No, it’s never a good idea to use up your home equity to finance a rapidly depreciating luxury item.)
Like I said, fear and greed. Reverse mortgages are very profitable for the lenders because of the high fees involved. If you have cash flow problems, I urge you to consult an independent and unbiased financial advisor who has nothing to gain from your purchase decisions. There are other alternatives. A reverse mortgage should be a last resort.
By Deborah Hoskins, JD, CFP
The Wise and the Wary Blog
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